We Call this
Two On One
16 "by the mouth of two or three witnesses every fact may be confirmed."
not attacking the person together
but bringing someone to give insight
and to keep you and them accountable
If that doesn't work
Take it to the Church
17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church
We are trying to help them deal with their sin, not bully them
Take it to a youth minister or group leaders asking what to do
It doesn't have to be the whole group
If They Still Refuse to Listen...
That's when we are done
We treat them as individuals of the World
We still love them like we would anyone else
We still pray for them and care with Christian attitude
But they have rejected repentence and are no longer a part of our group
What happens now?
17 if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
So: Love them and confront sin the right way
And be open to change when confronted yourself